Don’t Be Fooled: Skinny Gossip Is A Thinly Disguised Pro-Anorexia Site

I received a troubling new “comment” on my article about pro-anorexia blogs. In the article, I mentioned, among others, a blog called Skinny Gossip.

Here is what the commenter (Lisa) had to say:

Skinnygossip isn’t a pro ana site, it’s a pro skinny site. The owner of SkinnyGossip doesn’t encourage mental illness and there is a support group for girls who suffered from eating disorders on the Skinnygossip forums. Some of the “starving tips” may seem dumb but they don’t encourage you to harm yourself in any way, the term is just used to get more attention. SkinnyGossip is more about fashion and models then it is about losing weight.

Really? I thought to myself, taking another look at the site. And yes, Skinny Gossip was just as I remembered. It’s the classic case study of a pro-ana blog and demonstrates all the insidious ways such sites operate.

Pro-anorexia (pro-ana), pro-bulimia (pro-mia), and pro-eating disorder (pro-ed) blogs are “how to” guides encouraging and promoting eating disorders. I’m going to refer to them jointly as pro-ana blogs. According to the National Eating Disorders Association’s (NEDA’s) Media Guidelines For Responsible Coverage of Pro-Anorexia/Pro-Bulimia/Thinspiration:

Pro-ana/pro-mia/thinspo refers to web content that intentionally encourage or glorify dangerous behaviors characteristic of those who struggle with the eating disorders Anorexia Nervosa and Bulimia Nervosa, which can be life-threatening.

The National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD) notes:

On these sites, users are instructed and motivated to lose weight to be part of an “elite,” though hazardous, online community. Some initially appear friendly and benign. However, they can pose a serious threat to some individuals, not simply because they promote eating disorder behaviors, but because they build a sense of community that is unhealthy. They lure the impressionable and persuade them that the Pro-Ana community is providing caring and nurturing advice.

That’s perhaps the most dangerous part. These websites aren’t necessarily going to come out and say I’m going to teach how to have an eating disorder, even though it’s bad for you. Some are overt, unapologetic and defend the “lifestyle.” Others, however, are more subtle and sinister. According to ANAD:

It’s also increasingly more difficult to detect Pro-Ana sites. Many are disguised as positive sites where people help each other lose weight together. They come together under the banner of “thinspiration,”dispensing tips and tricks to lose weight. Some begin innocently enough but quickly descend into full-fledged Pro-Ana. In June 2010, researchers from Johns Hopkins studied the content of 180 sites they discovered while searching for terms like “Pro-Anorexia” and “thin and support.” 83% of the sites they viewed contained suggestions for engaging in eating disorder behaviors. A minority provided information on recovery, but also encouraged eating disorder behaviors. Contradicting information like this may influence innocent and impressionable site users, like children, adolescents and those who already feel isolated.

ANAD provides a list of the key characteristics of pro-ana blogs. Let’s take a look at some of these and see how Skinny Gossip measures up: Continue reading

Pro-Anorexia Blogs and Body Positive Blogs: Equating The Two is Simply Idiotic

Are body positive photo blogs actually positive? Websites and blogs such as Refinery 29 and iVillage have been abuzz about this issue. Here’s a picture from Curve Appeal, a body-positive blog that allows readers of all shapes and sizes to post pictures of themselves  to celebrate their beauty, showing what “real women” look like, with all of their non-airbrushed curves:

The young woman in the picture comments on her photo as follows:

I’m Kayla, I’m 5’6” and I’m a size 12-14 US. It wasn’t until a year after graduating high school that I realized I’m never going to be a size 4 and honestly, I couldn’t be love my curves more. They make me feel unique and beautiful. I love my hips, butt, and legs. I choose not to weigh myself because I don’t want to know. I wear what I think looks good on me and that’s all I care about.

Here’s another photo from Stop Hating Your Body:

The 18 year old woman in the picture has this to say:

Ever since i got into Middle school i could never accept my body. either i was too fat or what not. I used to be made fun of for my weight, and i struggled a lot with it. I didn’t like wearing bikinis, i didn’t like eating in front of people, i was just embarrassed about my body. I could never accept it till now. I just graduated high school, and when i look at myself in the mirror i see a beautiful person. I mean i am a little curvy, but i accept it now. Many years of fighting my body image, i now realize that my body is beautiful, and i am a strong person. No one can bring me down. I love the way i am. At one point i thought no guys would love me cause the way i look. but guys tell me my body is sexy. and they love it. I was so afraid of myself that i didn’t open up to guys, so i basically blamed them for something i was doing to myself. I LOVE WHO I AM. i am beautiful inside and out. No one is going to change me. respect your body. be healthy and love who you are. If you love yourself and let go of all the negative, then you can accept yourself.

I’m touched and inspired by these womens’ words. I applaud their bravery and willingness to open themselves up, show what they’ve been through and where they are now. Realizing you are struggling with the same issues as others have worked or are working through can make you feel less alone. When I had an eating disorder, part of my treatment was group therapy. Sharing our stories and encouraging each other was a pivotal part of my recovery. Continue reading

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